The question isn’t about God as male or female but about the reality of God. My answer begins with an acceptable definition of God. It’s not a definition that speaks of God in relation to an activity, for example, creation and it isn’t a definition that tells me of some dominant characteristic of God such as, for example, love. God is much more than a creator or love. For me, God is the one who has the last word. Who has the last word in your life? When you live your definition of God, how does it impact your behavior?